Often, we tell our kids that we are proud of them. They work hard, they are up against a lot, and when they succeed, it's a beautiful thing. They smile, until we ask them if they are proud of themselves. Some kids do say "yes," with an emphatic smile. But others can't respond. Or flat out say "no." We spend all of our time telling, showing and trying to prove that we love them. That they are valuable. That they are important and that they matter. But we can't force them to believe it.
Often we hear, "I'm not that good at it" or "I'm not smart." Those lies envelop and attack them EVERYDAY. For every compliment or encouragement we give them, there is an equal amount of discouragement, fear and doubt that surrounds them.
Often, we want to tattoo it on their foreheads. "You matter to God," or "So many people love you and are praying for you." Sometimes I tell them they have to listen to my compliments and believe them, "because I said so." There are only so many ways you can shout love at someone until you run out of options.
Often, God shows us his love, and we ignore it or reject it because we refuse to believe and accept it. The Old Testament is a prime example of human tendency to forget the value and worth we have in The Lord. (Am I the only one who reads the OT and keeps shouting, "Not again!?" I think not...)
Often, our kids are quick to highlight their own shortcomings, and slow to recognize their accomplishments and growth.
Very often, thankfully, God gives them opportunities to grow, learn, and develop their skills. And when they realize it for themselves, their smile that breaks out is reflected 10-fold on my own face.
Pride. One of those things that is both good and bad. Helpful and harmful. But my prayer for my kids is that they will take pride in themselves. In their abilities. In their character. In their smarts. In the wonderful way that God created them. And I pray that often.
Working on "publishing" their own books- another opportunity to shine!
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| Writing a fable in the style of the Boy who Cried Wolf |
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| Making his own "I am special" book |
We were honored to work with these wonderful kids, and reward them for all of their hard work with a fun celebration. They each received a certificate, their published and laminated book, their very own books to read over the summer, and of course, an ice cream sundae!
We thank you, from the bottom of our hearts, for joining us on this wonderful journey. Please continue to lift these precious children up in prayer, that they will grow, learn, be proud, and love.
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